In order to demonstrate expected behaviour, values and attitudes it is important to be consistent in every aspect of the home school environment.
Make your child or children aware of the expected behaviour, rules and sanctions.
As a teaching parent or carer, promote a positive behaviour yourself by treating every child with respect, without favouring one child over the other and by promoting equality and accepting a diverse capability of your children. Children often feel treated unfair if a younger child is allowed to take more breaks, for example, this can be avoided by explaining to the elder child the reasons for it.
Here are three major things to consider:
1. Keep the teaching area ‘classroom’ tidy
2. Be well prepared at the beginning of each lesson (lesson plan, required books etc.)
3. Keep interruptions to a minimum (phone calls etc.)
You could create a visual reminder for your child or children by making a poster of your desired behaviours. Include aspects like: Good behaviour is seen as being friendly, kind, polite, and careful, during lessons children should be working in a quiet manner and children are asked to being helpful to each other, to consider and accept the different needs of others.
Remind your children often of what is expected of them, by using prompts to assist them to remember your rules etc.
Praise good behaviour in front of siblings in your ‘classroom’ and treat your child with special certificates as well or other prompts like sticker charts, or the possibility to collect team points to get a rewarded.
How do we deal with unacceptable behaviour?
In the case of unacceptable behaviour there have to be sanctions in place and your child or children should be aware of them.
At the end of the lesson speak to your child, which can mean that the child loses some of his/her free time. In some cases a detention / extra work can be given, for example if the child has not done his/her work or has repeatedly disturbed the lesson.
If normal systems are not successful an Individual Behaviour Plan (IBP) could be a way to monitor and evaluate the situations and behaviours of your child. An easy way of drawing such a plan is to list negative behaviours over a period of time, then to think of reasons which might have caused the undesired behaviour and lastly to make a plan on how to address these behaviours appropriately.
The most important aspect though, is to communicate with your child on a regular basis that good behaviour is highly valued by yourself and therefore give more attention towards good behaviour then towards bad behaviour. This will automatically reinforce your child to behave him/herself better.
If you are not a homeschooler yet, why don’t you sign up for The Professional Home Educator Academy online training?
It will teach you everything you need to know to start home schooling your child or children!
Please Like & Share
All the Best,