Ultimate Success Smackdown!

Ultimate Success Naomi Mc Laughlan

Goal setting is the true secret to success in any area of life. But although setting a goal may seem simple, achieving it is usually another question altogether.

Why is that?

Because you will never achieve your goals unless you: (1) know exactly what you want, (2) are passionate about your goal, and (3) have a solid, realistic plan of action. This is what marks the difference between nebulous dreams and wishes – and truly achievable goals!

Many obstacles and challenges will fly right in your face when you’re going after a goal.

Here are 5 Time-tested Methods that will Help get the Success You Deserve;

1. Know exactly what your goal is

Your first job is to discover exactly what your goal is. What will achieving that goal really look like? Be as specific as possible about exactly what your desired end result is. Your success will be a measure of your clarity – since an achievable goal plan cannot be created around a nebulous “dream.”

If your goal is to create a more successful business, what will that look like? Are you thinking in terms of simply hiring someone else to give you more free time? Are you looking for a very specific monthly profit? Or can your goal be best expressed in terms of a certain lifestyle?

Regardless of what you want, the best way to get it is to first clarify exactly what you want in as much detail as possible. This can be hard work. But without a clear mental picture, you’ll never have the focus required to achieve your goal.

2. Be willing to pay the opportunity cost aka “entry fee”


Success takes dedicated planning and effort. In a way it’s like building a house. In the beginning all you have is a rough concept. Then you develop a complete set of plans – and you immediately move closer to success. The same is true of creating a better lifestyle, or a more successful business.

But there’s always an *entry fee* to be paid for success.

The entry fee?

Creating more success in your business may mean less recreational time. Writing your own book may require less TV. Being closer to your children may require adjusting your work or social activities.

It’s the “full glass” deal. If your life (your time) is already full to the top, there’s no room for something new. The entry fee is carving out the time to create that something new.

3. Focus on your goal every day

I’m sure you probably want to achieve your goal as fast as possible. That’s why clear mental focus is so very important.

Consistent daily focus is absolutely necessary to “burn in” the new neural pathways you need to create your new goal. Without daily focus, the old mental habits that have kept you from your goal will continue to take over.

This happens automatically – since these old habits replay 24/7 deep in your subconscious mind. The only way to override subconscious anti-success messages is to consciously focus on what you DO want – and build new neural networks!

That’s why success is an every-day event.

Re-commit to your goal every day. Don’t let your goal take a back seat to the daily tasks and distractions that will try to take over. Life WILL try to get in your way. Just get, and stay, on course every day. Focus on your goal, and on success!

4. Get passionate

One of the most powerful tools in your “success tool box” is having real passion for your goal.

Why passion?

Because intense passionate desire for your goal will help you burn in those new neural pathways even faster. Many, many scientific studies have shown that intense emotion (passion) is a key success tool.

PLUS (and this is really a *big* plus), intense passion will also help you rapidly override any inappropriate old “failure messages” stored in your subconscious mind.

5. Take consistent action

In many ways, actually taking action can be the most difficult step. Successful goal achievement is built by taking one small action after another.

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All the Best,

Naomi

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Homeschooling Your Preschool Child

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Each child has unique interests and learning needs, not to mention attention spans. Therefore, if you are wondering whether homeschooling is suitable for your child or children, it is best to do an initial evaluation of what your preschool child’s needs are.

Several online resources provide lesson suggestions for preschoolers. You may find these materials very helpful. However, consider them only as a guide to give your child’s learning some direction. It is highly advised to be aware of the learners’ interests, be it an inclination to writing, sports, arts and crafts, or any other subject. You can then incorporate these interests into your list of “things that a home schooled child should know.”

For different age groups of children, you may need to employ different methods and techniques for homeschooling. And in order to know which methods and activities best suits your child under a specific age group, this short list may be of help.

Children of age 2 are found to be the most difficult. The child often gets bored and at times frustrated when being taught. Stimuli are needed in order to catch their interests. Children of this age group are most eager to learn, often walking around, and climbing steps. Common behaviors of this age include self-centeredness and possessiveness. Their sense of humor also develops. Do activities relating to these capabilities of the child.

Homeschooling a 3 year old is even more trying. At this point, the child is more physical in affection and in play. They don’t mind change, love having friends to play with, and they take verbal instructions very well. Use these to stimulate them to participate in learning activities. At this age, they are already capable of communicating their needs.

Children of age 4 are usually capable of working with scissors, hopping around on one foot or skipping. They start to learn to draw and possess a lot of physical energy. Let them try new things, as this will be their number one interest. They are very imaginative so give them an opportunity to develop and express this creativity.

Remember that all children grow at their own rate,

and in their own ways.

To achieve maximum benefits for the home schooled preschooler, you should trust your child’s own intuition of their momentary needs and wants and give them sufficient freedom to explore, inquire, and ultimately learn.

I invite you to take part in the Professional Home Educator Academy, which is an online based training program for parents who like to set up a successful home-school environment. I have been a homeschooling mum of three for many years now, and I have highly enjoyed every step of it.In the program I share not only my experience, but also easy to follow steps and strategies on how you can make homeschooling integrate into your own family setup.

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Naomi xxx

How to promote expected behaviour, values and attitudes in a home school environment

In order to demonstrate expected behaviour, values and attitudes it is important to be consistent in every aspect of the home school environment.

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Make your child or children aware of the expected behaviour, rules and sanctions.
As a teaching parent or carer, promote a positive behaviour yourself by treating every child with respect, without favouring one child over the other and by promoting equality and accepting a diverse capability of your children. Children often feel treated unfair if a younger child is allowed to take more breaks, for example, this can be avoided by explaining to the elder child the reasons for it.

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1. Keep the teaching area ‘classroom’ tidy
2. Be well prepared at the beginning of each lesson (lesson plan, required books etc.)
3. Keep interruptions to a minimum (phone calls etc.)

You could create a visual reminder for your child or children by making a poster of your desired behaviours. Include aspects like: Good behaviour is seen as being friendly, kind, polite, and careful, during lessons children should be working in a quiet manner and children are asked to being helpful to each other, to consider and accept the different needs of others.
Remind your children often of what is expected of  them, by using prompts to assist them to remember your rules etc.
Praise good behaviour in front of siblings in your ‘classroom’ and treat your child with special certificates as well or other prompts like sticker charts, or the possibility to collect team points to get a rewarded.


How do we deal with unacceptable behaviour?

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In the case of unacceptable behaviour there have to be sanctions in place and your child or children should be aware of them.
At the end of the lesson speak to your child, which can mean that the child loses some of his/her free time. In some cases a detention / extra work can be given, for example if the child has not done his/her work or has repeatedly disturbed the lesson.
If normal systems are not successful an Individual Behaviour Plan (IBP) could be a way to monitor and evaluate the situations and behaviours of your child. An easy way of drawing such a plan is to list negative behaviours over a period of time, then to think of reasons which might have caused the undesired behaviour and lastly to make a plan on how to address these behaviours appropriately.

The most important aspect though, is to communicate with your child on a regular basis that good behaviour is highly valued by yourself and therefore give more attention towards good behaviour then towards bad behaviour. This will automatically reinforce your child to behave him/herself better.


If you are not a homeschooler yet, why don’t you sign up for The Professional Home Educator Academy online training?

It will teach you everything you need to know to start home schooling your child or children!

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Naomi xxx

Münster #1 Germany’s Bicycle City Fitness & Family friendly Holiday

Muenster NaomiMcLaughlan.com 1aDid you know where I was born? Good guess!  Yes, in Münster  #1 Germany’s Bicycle City, in the heart of North Rhine-Westphalia.

Despite leaving good old Germany 4 years ago to travel the world, I still love going back each year not only to meet family and friends, but also to explore the city by bike.NaomiMcLaughlan.com Bike Pic a

 

 

Germany is bicycle friendly, but Münster is exceptionally equipped with cycle tracks, special traffic light systems that give priority to pedestrians and riders, and even covering rural areas outside town centre with safe paths.  A highlight is the bike indoor parking station with space for 3.500 bikes (located at the main train station, see pic) where you can leave yours in secure storage, get it professionally cleaned or repaired and rent a bike for as little as $11 / £6.50  a day.

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5 Quirky Things about Münster & Bikes

1. “Masematte” is a regional sociolect, well documented since 1870 and still spoken in Münster  (yes, I peak it too ;-))

2. “Leeze” is the Masematte word for Bike

3. In the “Jugendverkehrsschule” also known as “Verkehrskindergarten” children, as little as 3, learn and practise to ride a bike in a miniature outdoor road traffic school

4. The Peace of Westphalia, ending the Thirty Years’ War in Europe, was a series of peace treaties (between the Dutch Republic and the Kingdom of Spain) signed between May and October 1648 in Osnabrück and Münster

5. You can ride or walk around the whole town centre taking the safe late medieval ‘promenade’ (see pic)Muenster Promenade NaomiMcLaughlan.com a

 

My favourite places in Münster :

  • The fresh fruit & veg market in town on Saturdays and Wednesdays mornings
  • The huge St. Lambert’s Church (see pic) in town, which is a great place to explore history
  • The Aa Lake, where you can take a pedal boat tour – my kids favourite
  • Take a carriage ride (see pic)

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So whether you are planning to increase your historic IQ, your fitness or just want to eat a Curry- Bratwurst (German grilled sausage with curry powder) along with a cold ‘Altbierbowle mit Erdbeeren’  (top-fermented dark beer mixed with strawberries),

I highly recommend visiting my home town, if you ever plan to travel to Germany! Find out more about Münster here.

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All the Best,

Naomi